Question: Why would a guy ask for your number unless he wanted to use it?
Answer: Sometimes a guy just wants to know he can get the number......

is that not exasperating??????????
I mean in a reasonable world when you ask for something it means you want it
not that you wanted to know if you could get it
I don't understand that rationale at all at all

if I ask for a fella's number its cuz I want it not cuz I trying to see how many numbers I could get

.......

So why is it I driving to work this morning
and this STUPID woman gine decide when she is NEXT to me in the double lane
she gine pull out and overtake the car ahead of her
near discombubalating me
I mean what sense was that
I still managed to get up the highway ahead of her
and all she did was cause me heart failure
I blow my horn soooo hard but the stupid woman (who was wearing a BIG ass straw hat)
had her windows up so she couldn't hear me cussing
if I coulda reach over a smack the woman upside her head I would have
!(*@^#(*&!_
blasted woman!!!!

Marcus says that he doesn't hate women but yet I have to wonder why all the jokes that are focussed on the failures of women
true the ones about men are funny but yet there are so many more about women or am I just being overly sensitive (cut to men saying YES bitch!)
anyway
I ain't know
I here reposting this cuz I can't understand why the first one I said so eloquently up and disappear
allya may notice I posted about 4 times tonite (plus too I just hey bored)

that's mainly to do with the fact that I got a lot on my mind all de rastaman time and don't have an outlet too often
yes I losing my friend to ballroom
tho she may argue she losing me to evating else i do
.....
welll I ain't losing her I just being dramatic :D
I know its like the third time I saying this but I am intrigued at my reaction to the fella from the beach
by now wunna think I caught up nuh
but I not
I just amazed at how the human brain works its realllllllllll funny
I wonder if it works that way for men? well?
with any luck it does then we all wouldn't be so focussed on looks and what not
ideally I think I'd like a guy who had the qualities I mentioned earlier
and the capacity to hang in there and understand me (especially since and I pride myself on this, that me and the pplz closest to me are not like ordinary girls and we real cool :D) watch it now I gine get chop
sometimes I have to admit I get real lonely and just would like some company
just someone to chill with
and nothing else
but unfortunately that doesn't seem possible
it Seems as tho if a guy invests time in you that he is doing just that making an investment for the big pay off
I can't call a guy to lime without him thinking he could get summa dis yum yum
unless its one of my closest male friends and they all have women so they are not available for my every beck and call
dangnabbit
men are just I ain't know what

I have to say that a fella who is confident in himself
funny
has a reasonable amount of manners
and honest
has got to be the sexiest thing on the planet
and I only found this out today!
I mean all this time I thought it was looks that made me look round
but boy was I ever wrong
as I said earlier this fella that moved from Punk to Prince the effect that his coolness had on his looks was revolutionary!
his looks were altered by the state of his mind
I mean
I ain't looking to tie this man down (hmmm well maybe I am :D)
but I mean on a purely scientific level I was astonished how easily I was able to change my opinion of the man
I...I ain't know what to make of this
I ain't too sure if I like it
cuz once this goes back to man command ALL hell gine break loose all the men gine know what buttons to push to get women to be putty!!!

:P

So I met this guy (for reference this guy is NOT the same Punk-Prince guy)
and the man for WHAT EVER reason just impresses me
I think it fading off now but I was really intrigued by this fella
the man isn't unusually gorgeous tho he is cute
and not amazingly intellectual but he just got something that I can't help but hope he comes into the room I'm in or the same place I am
just so I can look at the man
and he's drop these silly compliments but they seem to be working and making me laugh
*sigh*
oh well
he slacking off a little becuz whereas I'd like to meet up with this wonder boy and see what's cooking he like he ain't so eager
so I ain't so eager nuh more
bajan men

ok let me back track a little to explain a few things
As Daana says I am real picky
perhaps its true I ain't know
but I have to say it doesn't make sense going up to a complete stranger who is currently on the dance floor trying to shake her booty and have a conversations with said booty shaker

I was at Extreme the other nite
and this guy was talking to me now I have to admit while I think that trying to talk to someone you ain't know and by talk I ain't mean convo between already established friends I mean "so how are you. where you from. you bajan? what do you do for a living. generally anything that takes longer than 30 seconds to say
so I'm in extreme and this guy is talking to me I don't mind really I figure I would cut him some slack but its when de man tries to make an otherwise short conversation into an in depth discussion about lets say politics that doesn't make sense

another thing I don't particularly like is the fact that men think that JUST becuz you don't have a boyfriend
that you WANT to dance with them or that you are obligated to dance with them.
hehe
I was hanging out with a bunch of fellas and we were all on the dance floor.
now I know all these guys but they are just friends
Another guy comes up, assessing the situation and asks if I have a bfriend
to which I reply a negative

THEN
he says no one to buss my head if I dance with you (assuming that I want to dance with him at all)
so I say no becuz honestly there is no one there to buss his head if he danced with me
BUT
I ain't want to dance with that man
I mean good looking or not de man just lose SERIOUS points one time by assuming rubbish
why do I want to dance with him?
wunna could tell me

anyway so I say well I don't really want to dance with anyone at the moment far less a stranger
and he says (quite rudely I might add) ok well I standing right here (which is about 2 inches from de I an I )
so I tell de man to stand there and walk off
now I think most people would think I was being cold
or rude
or heaven forbid a b*tch!!
but honestly tho becuz I tell the man (nicely) I don't want to dance with him must I subject myself to him in my personal space when de WHOLE dance floor empty? (yes Extreme was scanty on Wednesday)
cha

ok so here's the thing
today me and Daana were at the beach
and we saw this guy who I think I had established was a punk he was ok looking nothing amazing
not necessarily that I wouldn't speak to him
just that he's a punk
NOW let me tell you
de man sit down with us
talk REAL shite and just had us dying and I have to say my estimation went from a Punk to a Prince
de man just look REAL good now
I mean sexiness cyan DONE!
lossssssy

ahh men
I have to say are the biggest enigma to me at least
I mean why is it that men can't be upfront and tell you what the hell is going on in their shallow heads?
every so often I enter a state of weakness and if a guy were to play his cards right he'd get thru no prob
BUT they inevitably do shite
and mess up evating

well after reading Daana's and seeing how much fun this would be I decided to get my own blogging site and do my own thing
whether or not mine is as interesting as everyone elses is totally unpredictable
but I don't care about wunna I doing this for me :)

Anyway
right now I am at work so I think I'll just hold it down before I get booted out of here
tata